A sweet life is a little Self-ish
Life design coaching for empaths and women ready to create a life on their own terms.
Can You Relate?
You want to break free from the habit of people-pleasing
You feel overwhelmed and drained because you’re trying to make others happy
You struggle creating compassionate boundaries and put needs of others above yours
You wait to gain validation from others before you take action towards your goals
You want “more” in your life, but you don’t know what that is or where to start
You struggle with making time to focus on what you want
Your Life Starts with Self
Give your Self the permission to get clear on what’s right for you.
Give your Self the permission to focus on what matters most in your life.
Give your Self the permission to manifest a life that you love.
About Me
Hi! I’m Melissa and I’m a Life Design Coach.
I’m an empath and recovering people-pleaser turned certified professional life coach. Experienced in solution-focused coaching and creating compassionate boundaries.
I created the Self-ish Life to help empaths and women who are ready to relinquish the label of people-pleaser and design a life on their own terms: A life that is in alignment with their true Self and to stop feeling guilty about it.
Coaching Packages for The Empowered Self
Life Design Coaching for the most important person in your life. Your Self.
Now is the time to get clear on what you truly want for your life and take powerful action to move forward. Learn to say yes when you meant to and finally design a life that you love.
Work with me and design a life so full it gives back.
Dare to Dream
Coaching sessions for empaths and women who are ready to discover what more looks like for them. It takes courage to share your dreams and I hold a safe space for you to express what your Self truly desires.
People-Pleaser to Empowered Giver
A 90-day coaching program to help empaths and women move from people-pleasers to empowered givers. You deserve to give your Self the support and energy that you’ve been giving away for far too long.
Find out which package is right for you. Book your no-obligation discovery call with me today!
Praise
“Melissa has coached me more times than I can count. She listens deeply, she is a very skilled and intuitive coach. I felt supported, heard, and seen. She made me feel accepted and encouraged, especially when the hurdles in front of me felt bigger than I wanted to tackle. I nearly walked away from finishing a program that I had invested a lot of time and money into, but with Melissa’s patience and support, she helped me get back on track until I completed the program.
If you’re unsure if coaching is right for you, it’s worth trying. Oftentimes, friends and family don’t understand the roadblocks you’re having, or they just tell you what they think you should do. Having a coach is a supportive way to help you gain momentum when you’re stuck or unsure about how to move forward.
Melissa worked like a collaborative partner in developing my life plan and goals, she held space for me to be honest, she was my cheerleader when I needed motivation, and she was a mirror when I needed a reality check and she helped me feel confident in my progress every step of the way. I highly recommend working with Melissa!” - Sara A.
What is a Self-ish Life?
The Self-ish Life is about empowerment. It starts with taking your power back, redefining what selfishness means, and living a life on your own terms. A sweet life is a little Self-ish because you finally decided that it was time to put your goals and dreams first. It’s a life worth living because it’s designed by your Self, the core of who you are.
You overextend and give from an empty cup because you were taught that giving makes you a good person. You fear being labeled selfish by those you care about the most. But in reality, giving from a depleted place is neither good nor kind. It only creates a cycle of negative energy that keeps you drained, stuck, and unable to move forward with your life. What is selfish? Allowing others to define what’s right for your life.
Self-love is not selfish. Self-care is not selfish. Self-actualization is not selfish.
I invite you to say yes to your Self and finally release the guilt of putting your wants and needs first. Decide that you matter. Your life matters. Create a Self-ish Life.
Want to know more? Contact Me